You won’t be paired up, speed dating, or promised that your person is sitting somewhere in the room.

This is a workshop for understanding you - the patterns you bring into relationships, what can change in you under pressure, and how to create connection with another person without losing connection with yourself.

You’ll be learning alongside other singles who are asking many of the same questions you are.

And if a little magic happens along the way? Consider that a side benefit. 😉

Astrology is one of the lenses we’ll use to help you understand yourself and your relationship patterns—not to predict your future or tell you who you should date.

Lynnette will help you explore the relationship language within your own natal chart, including Venus and Mars and what they can reveal about how you experience attraction, connection, relating, and partnership.

You don’t need to “believe in” astrology or know anything about it beforehand. Come curious.

Think of it as another map for exploring you—and perhaps seeing something about yourself you haven’t seen before.

Lynnie will guide approximately three hours of the workshop, Lynnette will guide approximately 45 minutes, and we’ll take a 30-minute lunch break. The teaching portions will flow together rather than feeling like two separate workshops.

The two pieces are designed to work together: different maps, same destination - understanding yourself more deeply so you can approach relationship differently.

Nope. You don’t need to study before you come. 😂

Everything will be explained in practical, understandable language, and Lynnette will introduce the astrology concepts you need for her portion of the workshop.

You don’t need to memorize brain terminology, understand your natal chart, or already be great at self-talk.

Bring yourself, your curiosity, and a willingness to look at your patterns differently. We’ll take it from there.

That’s certainly the bigger desire behind the question “Why haven’t I found my person yet?” And of course we both know that this workshop can’t promise when— -or where - you’ll meet someone.

What it can do is help you understand what you are bringing with you when connection happens. You’ll explore patterns you may not recognize yet, what can change in you when attraction or pressure enters the picture, and how to stay connected to yourself instead of abandoning pieces of yourself in pursuit of connection.

Finding the right person matters. Who you are able to be when that person enters your life matters, too.

This workshop is for singles who are willing to get curious about themselves - not just make a list of everything wrong with dating today. 😂

It’s especially suited to people who want meaningful connection, are open to exploring their patterns, and are willing to consider self-talk, neuroscience, personal growth, and astrology as different lenses for understanding themselves.

It probably isn’t for you if you’re looking for matchmaking, a guarantee that you’ll meet a partner, someone to tell you exactly who you should date, or a workshop where all the answers are about fixing yourself or the other person. People operate subconsciously with learned programming, and that's why this workshop exists.

You don’t have to agree with everything you hear. Curiosity is enough.

This workshop is intentionally small, with only 20 seats, so we have room for conversation, participation, and actual human connection.

If October 10 doesn’t work for you - or the workshop fills before you register—you can join the future workshop list and be among the first to hear about the next date.

We plan to continue offering Decode Your Relationship Patterns, so missing this date doesn’t mean missing the opportunity altogether.

Join the list for the next workshop →
https://lynniemotivates.net/decode-your-relationship-patterns-waitlist-page

Because you can’t intentionally change a pattern you don’t recognize.

Many of the ways we respond in relationships didn’t begin with the person standing in front of us. They were learned through earlier experiences, beliefs, expectations, self-talk, and repeated responses that can become familiar ways of relating.

Under pressure, those familiar patterns can become even easier to fall into—sometimes before you realize what’s happening.

This workshop helps you begin to recognize your patterns without judging yourself for having them. Once you can see what’s happening, you have a better opportunity to interrupt an old response, restore access to more of yourself, and practice something different.

Awareness is the pivot. You can’t choose differently until you can recognize what you’re choosing from.

We’ll look at something most dating advice skips: what is happening inside you as you create connection with someone else.

You’ll explore relationship patterns you may have learned long before you started dating, what can happen to those patterns when attraction, uncertainty, rejection, or pressure enters the picture, and how your self-talk can reinforce them.

You’ll learn practical ways to recognize what’s happening, restore access to more of yourself, and begin rewiring patterns that are no longer serving you.

Lynnette will add another lens by helping you explore relationship patterns through astrology, including Venus and Mars and what your own chart can reveal about how you approach connection.

You won’t just sit and listen. You’ll recognize, explore, practice, and apply what you learn to your own life.

Yes. We’ll take a 30-minute lunch break during our four hours together.

Because we have a lot we want to explore in a short amount of time, we aren’t planning additional formal breaks. But you’re a grown-up. 😂 If you need to use the restroom, refill your water, stretch, or step out for a few minutes, please take care of yourself whenever you need to.

We want you present and comfortable, not sitting there thinking, “When is Lynnie going to stop talking so I can ___?” 😂

Come back in when you’re ready, and we’ll keep moving.

Decode Your Relationship Patterns will be held in Denver:

7550 W. Yale Avenue, Suite B 204 (upstairs)
Denver, CO 80227

Saturday, October 10, 2026
9:30 AM–2:00 PM

Full arrival details and anything you need to know before the workshop will be sent to registered participants by email.