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Why Haven’t I Found My Person Yet?

Decode Your Relationship Patterns

A transformational workshop to understand your relationship patterns, recognize what changes under pressure, and learn to create connection without losing yourself.

Denver, Colorado • October 10, 2026 • 9:30AM–2:00PM
4-Hour Live Workshop • $297

This Isn’t Another Dating Workshop

Because there may be more to the question “Why haven’t I found my person yet?” than where - or how - you’re looking.

It may also be worth understanding what happens inside you when connection enters the picture.

You can know exactly what you want in a relationship and still find yourself repeating patterns you swore you were done with.

You can be confident in most areas of your life and still second-guess yourself when you really like someone. You can know your boundaries and watch them change when connection feels uncertain. You may even find yourself becoming a version of yourself you barely recognize.

That's what we’re going to explore.

The Unique Connection Advantage™ is the framework you’ll learn during this live, interactive workshop to help you understand what you uniquely bring to a relationship, recognize what can change for you under pressure, and create connection without losing yourself in the process.

This isn't about becoming more desirable, learning dating tricks, or being matched with someone in the room.

It’s about understanding yourself well enough to show up for connection as more of who you actually are.

What If Connection Didn't Require Losing Yourself?

Imagine being able to really like someone without immediately questioning your value.

To feel attraction without abandoning your boundaries. To experience uncertainty without automatically chasing, withdrawing, comparing yourself, or becoming so focused on being chosen that you forget to ask whether this person is actually a good choice for you.

Imagine noticing those shifts sooner—while you still have room to choose what happens next.

To stay connected to your values, your boundaries, and more of who you are while also making room for another person.

Not becoming someone more desirable.

Becoming more able to create connection without abandoning yourself in the process.

That is the advantage.

See What You Couldn’t See Before

DISCOVER
What you uniquely bring to connection.

Not a generic list of what makes someone a “good partner.” You’ll begin identifying the qualities, values, strengths, needs, and ways of connecting that are uniquely yours.

RECOGNIZE
What can change under pressure.


Attraction, uncertainty, old patterns, self-talk, fear of rejection, and the desire to be chosen can affect how you show up. You’ll learn to notice those changes earlier, before they quietly begin making decisions for you.

CREATE MORE CHOICE
Stay more connected to yourself in real-life connection.


Through practical tools for stability, awareness, self-talk, and conscious choice, you’ll practice creating more space between what gets triggered and what you do next.

Because connection doesn’t require becoming someone else. It begins with having greater access to who you already are.

What We’ll Explore Together

This is a working workshop, not four hours of sitting and listening.

You’ll reflect, interact, practice, ask questions, and have opportunities to work with other singles as you explore what you naturally bring to connection and what can begin to change when attraction, uncertainty, or pressure enters the picture.

We’ll look at connection from more than one angle. I’ll help you explore learned patterns, self-talk, and responses that can influence how you show up in relationships. Lynnette will bring astrology in as another lens for understanding your natural tendencies and relationship dynamics.

And you’ll do all of this alongside other singles who are there to better understand themselves and connection—not to be matched with someone.

You’re not coming to find your person in the room. You’re coming to understand yourself better in relationship to one.

During Our Four Hours Together

DISCOVER
The qualities, values, strengths, needs, and ways of connecting that are uniquely yours.

RECOGNIZE
What can begin to change when attraction, uncertainty, old patterns, or pressure enter the picture.

EXPLORE

Attraction and chemistry through the lens of astrology.

PRACTICE
Ways to stabilize, work with your self-talk, and create more space for conscious choice in real-life connection.

You won't leave with a formula for finding "the one."
You'll leave knowing more about the one person you bring into every relationship: you.

Is This Workshop For You?

This workshop is designed for single adults ages 36–49 who want a meaningful relationship—and are willing to look beyond dating strategies to better understand themselves in connection.

You know what you want - but keep noticing familiar patterns.

You’re confident in much of your life, but connection can bring out a different side of you.

You want to understand yourself more deeply - not learn how to become more desirable.

You’re open to exploring relationship patterns through self-awareness, self-talk, practical tools, and astrology.

You don’t need to know anything about astrology, neuroscience, or self-talk before you come. Just bring your curiosity and a willingness to explore.

This Workshop Probably Isn’t For You If…

You’re primarily looking for a singles mixer or matchmaking event.

You want dating tricks, formulas, or strategies for making yourself more desirable.

You’re looking for someone else to tell you who you should date or what your relationship should look like.

You’re not open to exploring yourself from different perspectives—including self-talk, learned patterns, practical tools for stability, and astrology.

You don’t have to agree with everything you hear. You do need to be curious enough to explore.

Meet Your Guides

(mother | daughter duo)

Lynnie Wennerstrom

Subconscious Rewiring Specialist • Certified Self-Talk Trainer™ • Life Coach

Lynnie helps people recognize what happens inside them when life - or connection - puts them under pressure, and teaches practical ways to stabilize, work with their self-talk, and create more conscious choice in what happens next.

Her work brings together self-awareness, learned patterns, self-talk, and practical tools for helping people stay connected to more of who they are- even when emotions run high.

During this workshop, Lynnie will help you explore the patterns you may be bringing into connection, recognize what can change under pressure, and begin practicing ways to respond differently.

Lynnette Wennerstrom, astrologer and co-guide for Decode Your Relationship Patterns singles workshop

Lynnette Wennerstrom

Astrologer • Translator • Founder of Cosmic Moves

Lynnette Wennerstrom is an astrologer and the founder of Cosmic Moves, where she teaches a practical, right-sized approach to astrology that helps people build their own relationship with their chart.

Lynnette brings astrology into the workshop as another lens for understanding yourself in relationships. She’ll introduce you to Venus and Mars, two parts of the birth chart that offer different ways of exploring attraction and chemistry, including what draws you in and how you go after what you want.

Her approach puts you, rather than your chart, at the center of the conversation. The same placement can show up very differently from one person to another, shaped by our experiences, patterns, and preferences. This isn’t about using astrology to predict when your person will appear or tell you who you “should” date. It’s about using your chart as another tool for understanding you.

Two different lenses. One shared purpose: helping you understand yourself more clearly in connection

Ready to Spend Four Hours Understanding You Differently?

Saturday, October 10, 2026
9:30 AM–2:00 PM
Denver, Colorado
Live • Interactive • Limited to 20 Singles
Investment: $297

Your $297 registration includes the four-hour live workshop, interactive exercises and practice, your workshop materials, and the opportunity to learn alongside other singles exploring many of the same questions.

Limited to 20 singles

Ready to Understand Yourself Differently in Relationship Connection?

Saturday, October 10, 2026 • 9:30 AM–2:00 PM
Denver, Colorado • Live 4-Hour Workshop
Investment: $297 • Limited Seating

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